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Your character is middle-aged.  How would you describe their appearance?
Is your character religious?  Do they worship a deity, an abstract ideal, or some other philosophy?  Do they have a personal code of conduct?
When you were young, a relative with whom you had frequently quarreled passed away where his or her soul could not rest. Now, the unquiet spirit appears around you at inconvenient times, distracting you with regret for being unable to help.  Who was this relative and how would you describe this relationship?